Hazrat Umar bin Abdul Aziz (may Allah have mercy on him) set out on one of his journeys. When he felt intense heat, he called for a turban and tied it, but immediately took it off. It was submitted to him: "O Commander of the Faithful (Amir al-Mu'minin)! Why did you take it off? It was meant to protect you from the heat." He replied: "I recalled some verses of poetry composed by the people of old times, and those verses are as follows."

Translation of the Arabic Verses:

(1) The man whose face gets touched by the sun or covered in dust, fears that it will become blemished and disheveled,

(2) And he seeks shade so that his freshness/complexion remains intact—he will soon, one day, be covered in the dust of the grave.

(3) He will be dust-covered and in desolation inside such a dark pit, and will spend a long duration in Taht-at-Thara (the bottom of the seven earths, in the place of Sijjin, where the souls of disbelievers and wrongdoers are cast).

(Benefit/Note): Along with the aforementioned verses, Allamah Dhahabi (RA) has also mentioned this verse:

Translation: "O soul! Prepare (for the Hereafter) before becoming worthless, for that is where you have to arrive (in any case); you have not been created in vain."

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اگر آپ ہزاروں کتابیں، نعتیں، تصاویر، ویڈیوز، اخبار، مضامین، قبلہ نما، اوقات نماز، اسلامک گھڑی اور بہت کچھ آسانی کے ساتھ حاصل کرنا چاہتے ہیں تو بس ہمارے Islamic Tube ایپ کو پلے سٹور سے انسٹال کرو، اور بالکل مفت اور آسانی کے ساتھ اسلامک مواد حاصل کرو

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Where Does a Child Learn Foul Language From?

Where Does a Child Learn Foul Language From?

Where does a child learn these abusive words (foul language)? First of all, they learn it from home. A father who abuses his wife over every little thing, abuses his children, or uses such language in private gatherings with friends and on the mobile phone, then this child is learning from the father. The child thinks that abusing is not a bad thing when they see the father abusing the mother at every turn. The child learns the most by watching and listening. The child will do the exact same things in the future that they are seeing now, no matter how much you try to stop them from doing something; doing what they have witnessed becomes an inevitable nature. Then the same things come to the child's tongue. If you want to see what the environment of this child's home is like, just listen to the child's language. The home environment can be known from the child's language. The state of upbringing inside the home can be judged by the child's personality—what kind of upbringing is taking place in the home. The child's way of sitting and standing, their way of speaking, conversing, and mannerisms will reveal it all. There is a lack of proper upbringing in our homes, which is why there is a spoilage in our children. We think that because they went to school, tuition, or a madrasa, our responsibility is fulfilled. This responsibility is not fulfilled. Give them time separately, use civilized words in your conversation so that the child learns language, manners, and tone from you. ____________📝📝____________ Book: 330 Guiding Principles for the Upbringing of Children Page Number: 175 Author: Maulana Muhammad Noman Sahib Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App