*If Only Caliphate Could Be Like This...!!*

When Hazrat Umar bin Khattab (RA) came to the Bait-ul-Mal (Treasury) after assuming the Caliphate, he asked the people:

"What did Hazrat Abu Bakr (RA) used to do?"

The people replied:

"After finishing his prayers, he used to take a small amount of food and head out in a certain direction...!"

He asked, "Where did he use to go?"

The people said, "We do not know that, he just used to leave in that direction...!"

Hazrat Umar (RA) took some food and set off in that direction. Asking people along the way about where Hazrat Abu Bakr (RA) used to go, he eventually reached a hut. Going inside, he saw an old man who was blind in both eyes and had sores/paralysis on his face. When the old man heard the sound of someone approaching, he spoke in deep anger: "Where had you gone for the last three days...?"

Hazrat Umar (RA) remained silent and began feeding him. The old man said angrily:

"What is the matter? Firstly, you come after three days, and now you have even forgotten the way of feeding...?"

When Hazrat Umar (RA) heard this, he began to weep and told him:

"I am Umar, and the one who used to feed you was the Caliph of Muslims, Abu Bakr (RA), and he has passed away...!"

When the old man heard this, he stood up and said:

"O Umar! Guide me to recite the Kalimah and accept Islam. For the last two years, that man came to me every day and fed me, but not even for a single day did he tell me who he was...!"

The old man further shared that he (Hazrat Abu Bakr) used to soften the morsel of bread with his own mouth before feeding it to him.

*Reference: (Kanz al-Ummal, Kitab al-Fada'il)*

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Methods of Upbringing Children: A Code of Conduct for Tarbiyat

Methods of Upbringing Children: A Code of Conduct for Tarbiyat

(1) When Allah Ta'ala blesses someone with children and they begin to reach an age of understanding, first of all, teach them the Kalimah of Tawheed (Declaration of Oneness). Then teach them the necessary manners and etiquette. (2) Whenever they come before you, they should greet you with Salaam. (3) Instill a strong dislike and aversion for lying in them. (4) Teach and emphasize the importance of Purdah (hijab/veiling) and modesty (Haya) to them. (5) Do not allow boys and girls to play together in one place. If they are non-Mahram (marriageable relatives), this restriction prevents future evils and corruptions; and if they are Mahram (unmarriageable relatives), there is a risk of developing immodesty in girls and a potential decline of intellect in boys. (6) Parents themselves should never commit any inappropriate or immodest act in front of children, even if the child is so small that they cannot speak. This is because the reflection of that act gets imprinted on their mind, and its effects manifest after they grow up. (7) Do not let them develop the habit of sensual or vulgar jesting, as this breeds boldness and shamelessness. (8) Ensure that close friendships do not develop among mature/discerning children, as this leads to countless evils and corruptions. If there is any benefit or reason for them to play together, you must be present yourself during that playtime, and do not allow mixing afterward. (9) Make it a habit for them never to do anything secretly. A child will only do a task secretly if they consider it bad. Consequently, they will become habituated to doing bad deeds from the very beginning. (10) Also make it a habit that they never engage in stubborn partisanship (defending something or taking sides unnecessarily). Once the truth becomes clear, even if a person of lower status points it out, they should immediately accept it, and instill the habit of humility and modesty in every matter. (Islaah-e-Inqilaab, p. 204) Make it a habit that if a mistake is committed by them, they should confess it. If that mistake is transitive (i.e., it involves or affects someone else), they must seek forgiveness from the rightful person. Instilling this habit is highly essential, because it contains the safety of their faith (Deen) and the peace and honor of this world, whereas backing away from it stems from arrogance and causes perpetual humiliation and resentment. (Islaah-e-Inqilaab, p. 204) _____________________________________ Book: Tarbiat-e-Aulad Page Number: 70 / 71 Author: Hakim-ul-Ummat Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi (Rahimahullah Ta'ala) Selection: Islamic Tube Pro App