. 💐 *Grief-Proof Heart* 💐

Abridged from the book "Mawaiz-e-Dard-e-Muhabbat" (by Arif Billah Hazrat Aqdas Maulana Shah Hakim Akhtar Sahib)

Selection and Abridgment by *Huzaifa Mangroli*

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It is not necessary that outer luxury brings inner comfort. An air conditioner can cool our skin but it cannot extinguish the fire of the heart. If Allah is displeased, even if the body is in a million comforts, the heart remains in torment and cannot find peace. A saint says:

*When the heart was a garden, spring dripped from everything*

*When the heart became a desert, the whole world became a desert*

As much as we worry about outer luxury, we should worry even more about making our heart connected with God; otherwise, even in an air conditioner, the heart will remain burning with anxiety and miseries. Even among thousands and millions of rupees, the heart will remain sorrowful, anxious, and disturbed.

Maulana Rumi states:

*That one is blissful and glad in the corner of a mosque*

*And that one is sour and hopeless in a garden*

One person is blissful on a straw mat inside a mosque, while another is in a garden surrounded by flowers on all four sides but is sorrowful and hopeless due to the thorns of grief. This one is crying among flowers, and that one is laughing among thorns. Now if someone says that this is a coexistence of opposites (contradiction)—how does Allah Almighty make someone happy amidst grief? Then I say, "Look sir! Switzerland is making these waterproof watches; there is water all around, why does it not affect it? Why is it waterproof? Allah also makes the hearts of His lovers 'grief-proof'. The one upon whose heart is Allah Almighty's mercy and gaze of kindness, remains happy and carefree even amidst thousands of griefs."

ارے بھائی!

اگر آپ ہزاروں کتابیں، نعتیں، تصاویر، ویڈیوز، اخبار، مضامین، قبلہ نما، اوقات نماز، اسلامک گھڑی اور بہت کچھ آسانی کے ساتھ حاصل کرنا چاہتے ہیں تو بس ہمارے Islamic Tube ایپ کو پلے سٹور سے انسٹال کرو، اور بالکل مفت اور آسانی کے ساتھ اسلامک مواد حاصل کرو

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Upbringing of Youth: Shariah vs. Societal Traditions

Upbringing of Youth: Shariah vs. Societal Traditions

How many men are there who were taught the exegesis (Tafseer) of "Surah Al-Ma'idah" as soon as they reached maturity, and how many women are there who were taught the Tafseer of "Surah An-Nur" upon reaching maturity? I know, they are very few. But look at the other side...! How many men have heard from their parents after reaching maturity, "I don't want to hear any inappropriate news about you," and how many women have heard from their parents after reaching maturity, "Protect our family's honor, I don't want to hear any inappropriate things from you"? I know this number is quite high. Because "Shariah" is not taught here; instead, lessons on saving the "honor" and "sanctity" of the parents and family are given. They aren't even made to understand that "You are precious... protect yourself." Instead, a strict eye is kept on them as soon as they reach maturity. At a time when emotional attachment has a very deep impact on a human being, an attempt is made to bind the free bird with ropes. And those birds, seeking love, with young blood running through their veins, try their strength; then the rope breaks, and sometimes it even becomes a noose around the neck. If we had kept our children and ourselves within the fortress of "Hablullah" (the rope of Allah), i.e., the Quran, this would never have happened because that rope is very strong—it connects hearts, connects relationships, and guides towards the straight path (Sirat-al-Mustaqeem). Teach Shariah to your growing children. Teach Surah Al-Ma'idah to the son and Surah An-Nur to the daughter. Tell them that if this time is spent for the sake of Allah Almighty, the future will be very beautiful. Tell them that they have the best halal options available and they do not need to waste their emotions in haram relationships. Tell them that we will together make the best decision for you, which will be good for you and in which your happiness lies. Tell them that haram destroys the pleasure of halal. Rights and duties are not just about imposing one's will, nor is upbringing (Tarbiyat) merely a matter of reciting two or three commandments. The biggest problem with this system is that parents do not fulfill their own desires; their desires are tied to their children. ("I raised you for so many years, do I not have the right to bring a daughter-in-law of my choice or choose a son-in-law of my choice?") They don't make decisions about their own lives (their parents did it for them), so they want to decide their children's lives. They want a daughter-in-law of their standard or a son-in-law of their choice... the children's preference doesn't matter. This cycle will continue like this... and the string of no one's life will be in their own hands. These fake ropes will keep being made and broken. But we will not hold onto "Hablullah", because to hold onto it, many things have to be left behind. Such as "the obsolete traditions of society" which have destroyed our souls. Either please your society or Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala...!!!