Keep one principle in mind that the desire of a husband and wife is always to become one. Their bodies should become one, they should sacrifice themselves for each other, they should live a life of love and affection with each other, and their hearts should become one. Therefore, write this phrase in your hearts: "When you become righteous (Nek), then you will become one (Ek)." Until righteousness enters human natures, hearts cannot become one. When you become righteous, you will become one. For this reason, the husband should also become righteous and have the fear of God in his heart, and the wife should also have the fear of God in her heart. Therefore, read Surah An-Nisa and see. After every few verses, you will find the words "Ittaqullah" (fear Allah), "Ittaqullah", "Ittaqullah". This is because Allah Almighty knew that until there is fear of Allah in the hearts of husband and wife, they will not be able to live a life of love and affection with each other. Some elders used to say that a woman who does not become a servant of the One Allah, then has to become a servant of thousands. Now look at these women working in offices! The poor things become salesgirls and plead with all kinds of customers in different manners.
